Introduction
While ABBA is known for their catchy pop anthems and feel-good melodies, “Should I Laugh Or Cry” takes a different turn. Released in 1981 as the B-side to two singles, it wasn’t until 1983’s compilation album “Thank You for the Music” that it gained wider recognition.
The song, with lead vocals by Anni-Frid Lyngstad, explores the complexities of a relationship on the brink of collapse. Music critics have described it as “bitter” and reflecting the “preemptive strikes of anger and contemplation” in a failing romance. This shift in tone aligns with the period in which it was written. By 1981, songwriters Benny Andersson and Björn Ulvaeus were going through their own personal struggles, including a divorce within the band.
Despite the somber theme, “Should I Laugh Or Cry” retains ABBA’s signature musicality. The melancholic piano melody sets the tone, while Frida’s powerful vocals convey the emotional turmoil of the lyrics. The song builds to a powerful chorus, mirroring the internal struggle between anger and sadness at the relationship’s demise.
“Should I Laugh Or Cry” offers a poignant look at the heartbreak that can accompany the end of a love affair. While not a typical ABBA hit, it showcases the band’s ability to delve into deeper emotional territory, making it a favorite among fans who appreciate their artistic range.