Introduction
“One of Us,” released in December 1981, marked a turning point for the Swedish pop juggernaut ABBA. While still undeniably catchy, the song’s melancholic tone hinted at the personal struggles within the band that would ultimately lead to their disbandment.
Composed by Benny Andersson and Björn Ulvaeus, both members of ABBA were going through divorces at the time. This emotional turmoil is reflected in the lyrics, which paint a picture of heartbreak and disillusionment with love. The narrator watches a seemingly happy couple and questions if lasting love is even possible: “They passed me by, all of those great romances / You were, I felt, robbing me of my rightful chances.”
Despite its chart success in Europe, “One of Us” underperformed in the United States, likely due to its release coinciding with ABBA’s break-up. However, the song’s raw vulnerability resonated with fans and became an anthem for those facing the end of a relationship.
Beyond the heartbreak, “One of Us” also hints at a more introspective and political side of ABBA that would become more prominent on their final album, “The Visitors.” The song’s title, “One of Us,” can be interpreted as a commentary on societal pressures to conform, a theme that would be explored further in later tracks.
With its melancholic melody, relatable lyrics, and subtle social commentary, “One of Us” stands as a bridge between ABBA’s sunny pop anthems and their more mature later work. It’s a song that showcases both the group’s musical prowess and their ability to capture the complexities of love and loss.