Introduction
While ABBA is known for their infectious pop anthems, “Should I Laugh Or Cry” takes a different turn. Released in 1981 as the B-side to two singles, it wasn’t until 1983’s “Thank You for the Music” compilation that it received wider recognition.
The song’s origins are intertwined with the personal lives of songwriters Benny Andersson and Björn Ulvaeus, both experiencing marital troubles at the time. This melancholic undercurrent permeates the lyrics, sung by Anni-Frid Lyngstad.
“Should I Laugh Or Cry” explores the complexities of a failing relationship. The narrator grapples with conflicting emotions – anger at a partner’s insincerity (“He stands, comforting over me, beside my bed / Losing his head, tells me, I must take him seriously”) and a sense of resignation (“Is this the end, another story turning sour?”). The title itself encapsulates this emotional turmoil – is the situation so ridiculous it deserves laughter, or so heartbreaking it warrants tears?
Despite its somber theme, “Should I Laugh Or Cry” retains a signature ABBA quality. The melody, though tinged with sadness, is still catchy, and Frida’s vocals deliver the poignant lyrics with a quiet strength. This unique blend of pop sensibilities and emotional depth makes “Should I Laugh Or Cry” a standout in ABBA’s discography.
So, as you listen, prepare to be transported to a world of bittersweet emotions, where laughter and tears hang in the balance.