Introduction
Though not originally intended for the spotlight, ABBA’s “Should I Laugh Or Cry” holds a unique place in their discography. Recorded in September 1981 during sessions for their introspective album “The Visitors,” the song ultimately became a B-side to the singles “One of Us” and “When All Is Said and Done.”
This wasn’t just any B-side. “Should I Laugh Or Cry” offered a poignant counterpoint to the album’s themes. While “The Visitors” explored themes of heartbreak and separation largely from a female perspective, “Should I Laugh Or Cry” flips the script. With Anni-Frid Lyngstad’s vocals leading the way, the lyrics delve into the emotional turmoil of a man grappling with the dissolution of a relationship. The lines “Should I laugh or cry? Should I take it or lie?” perfectly capture the confusion and helplessness that can accompany a break up.
Despite its thematic weight, “Should I Laugh Or Cry” never received a full album release. However, the song found a new life on the 1983 compilation album “Thank You for the Music” and was later included as a bonus track on remastered versions of “The Visitors.” This inclusion ensured that this powerful song wouldn’t be lost to the fans.
So, as you listen to “Should I Laugh Or Cry,” keep in mind its fascinating backstory. It’s a song born from the rich tapestry of “The Visitors” era, offering a unique perspective on love and loss, all delivered with ABBA’s signature blend of pop sensibilities and emotional depth.