Introduction
“Why Did It Have To Be Me” stands out on ABBA’s 1976 album, Arrival, for its unique sound and unexpected lead vocalist. While Benny Andersson and Björn Ulvaeus are known for crafting catchy pop anthems sung by Agnetha Fältskog and Anni-Frid Lyngstad, this track takes a different route.
Composed by the songwriting duo of Andersson and Ulvaeus, “Why Did It Have To Be Me” is often described as having a “Fats Domino flavor” due to its bluesy piano and rock and roll influences. It’s a clear departure from the group’s usual disco-pop sound, incorporating elements of jazz and even a hint of country with its melancholic lyrics.
But the biggest surprise is the lead vocals. Unlike the usual powerhouse combination of Agnetha and Frida, “Why Did It Have To Be Me” features Björn Ulvaeus himself on lead. His gruff, soulful delivery adds a layer of vulnerability to the song, perfectly capturing the heartache of the protagonist.
The lyrics paint a picture of a lonely man who falls for a woman who may not feel the same way. He questions his own motives and wonders if he’s simply a pawn in her game. Despite his initial desire for a casual affair, he now senses her growing feelings and fears being hurt. The song ends with a bittersweet resignation, urging her to forget him.
“Why Did It Have To Be Me” stands as a fascinating experiment within ABBA’s vast catalog. It showcases their musical versatility and willingness to explore new territory. This unique blend of blues, pop, and rock, along with Bjorn’s passionate vocals, creates a compelling and emotional listening experience.