Introduction
“Trying Not to Love You,” though often mistaken as an Alan Jackson original, was actually written by country music legend Merle Haggard. Details about its exact origin are slim, but it likely never received a formal release by Haggard himself.
The song found its wider audience when Alan Jackson included it on his 2002 compilation album, “Who Said I Wrote All the Songs.” This compilation featured both classic Jackson hits and lesser-known gems, often penned by other artists. “Trying Not to Love You” resonated with fans, drawn to its relatable portrayal of a love that shouldn’t be, but undeniably exists.
Lyrically, the song paints a picture of a complicated situation. The narrator is wrestling with strong feelings for someone they know they shouldn’t love. The reasons for this are left open to interpretation, but the internal struggle is palpable. The chorus captures this beautifully: “I’m trying not to love you, trying to forget your name / But it’s written on my heart, and whispered in the rain.”
“Trying Not to Love You” doesn’t shy away from the emotional turmoil. It’s a song about forbidden desires, unspoken truths, and the bittersweet ache of wanting something you can’t have. This vulnerability is a hallmark of Jackson’s music, and here it elevates Haggard’s poignant lyrics to new heights.
So, as you listen to “Trying Not to Love You,” prepare to be swept away by a tale of forbidden love, sung with sincerity and raw emotion. It’s a testament to the power of a well-crafted song, finding new life and captivating audiences long after its initial creation.